I have dark blonde hair, it keeps getting darker and i want to dye it lighter. I'm going to do it at home, like my friend does. I have green eyes and I'm kinda pale, and i'm not sure what shade blonde to use. some of the ones i'm considering are: http://www.drugstore.com/products/prod.asp?pid=178663&catid=32197&aid=333971&aparam=l_oreal_preference_fade_&CAID=8087c0c8-0ba2-42aa-b4dc-a067db2cf146 http://www.drugstore.com/qxp77340_333181_sespider/loreal_preference/les_blondissimes_haircolor_extra_light_natural_blonde_lb02.htm http://www.shopping.com/xPO-L_Oreal_Loreal_Preference_Hair_Color_Ultimate_Sun_Blonde_No_10Sb_1_Each http://www.nyhealthandbeauty.com/index.cfm/a/catalog.prodshow/vid/14510?health http://www.nyhealthandbeauty.com/index.cfm/a/catalog.prodshow/vid/14439?health http://www.nyhealthandbeauty.com/index.cfm/a/catalog.prodshow/vid/14448?health which color should i use? and any other tips on dying it? and I'm doing it at home not the salon i cant spend too much, and my friends been dying her hair blonde 4 years, shes really brunette, youd never guess shes not natural blonde lol. so which should i do? TIA!